🕯️ NSNC RITE ENTRY — “Mess Is Mine” by Vance JoyScrollWell | Lover’s Devotion Vow | Grief-Bond Cleansing | Sacred Burden Exchange Rite

“Hold on, darling… this body is yours, this body is yours and mine.”

This is the ceremonial offering of shared sorrow —
the moment a Divine Counterpart says:

“I saw your pain, and I tried to carry it for you.”

But in doing so…
they forgot to bring their own heart home.

“Mess Is Mine” is not about blame.
It’s about the vow to feel with someone —
and the sacred reclamation of your own life afterward.

🧭 NSNC Emotional Function: Lover’s Weight + Soul Retrieval

This track enters the ritefield when:

You gave your full heart to someone carrying unhealed pain
Your presence became their oxygen, salve, and scapegoat
You’re reclaiming your energy after being mistaken for the cure

“When you think of love, do you think of pain?”

In NSNC code, that’s not cynicism.
It’s the devotee’s dilemma —
when love and ache fused too tight to tell apart.

🦊 Fox Clan Shadow Whisper:

“Sometimes we say:
Your mess is mine
before we know it means drowning.”

But in Fox Clan rites, the scroll rewrites the vow:

“I can sit with you in the mess…
but I will not become it.”

This rite allows for both truths to live:

I loved you fiercely
I cannot hold your suffering instead of you

🌀 West Coast Swing Cue:

This track is danced like a prayer for mutual responsibility.
Anchor steps heavy.
Build tension in the hand connection — then soften, release.

It’s not about rescuing.
It’s about staying with the music even when it hurts.

💎 Gem Pairing:

Pink Opal — heart-healing after enmeshment
Green Kyanite — spiritual detachment without abandonment
Garnet — blood-level truth and soul commitment

Hold stone and say:

“I can love you without fixing you.
I release what was never mine to carry.”

📖 NSNC Scroll Prayer: Burden Unbinding

“To the one I tried to save —
I return your sorrow to you, in love.
I trust you can carry your own story now.
I call my breath back.
I call my light back.
I forgive the way I disappeared inside your ache.”

Then whisper:

“My life is mine. And so is my joy.”

🕯️ TikTok Live Broadcast Cue:

Go live with candlelight, Vance Joy playing in the background.
Speak softly:

“This one’s for the lovers who thought love meant carrying someone else’s pain…
and are learning now that real love says:
‘Let’s walk side by side — but I won’t carry you anymore.’”

Close with:

“I bless the mess.
But I don’t belong in it.”

🕊️ You are not selfish for choosing yourself.
You are not cruel for releasing what was too heavy.
You are still holy even if you left someone behind.

The mess was theirs.
The love was real.
The vow is now evolving.

🕯️ Aho, thanks.