A Workbook on Vicarious Traumatization by Karen Saakvitne and Laurie Anne Pearlman
This text defines Vicarious Traumatization and that which transforms it, antidotes for helpers, meaning and restoration. See p. 75 for the ABC’s and how to use mindfulness and realms. For help with intrusive imagery (I have exploded the world with my desire) see p. 86
See Hinduism with the deity Brahma and the 4 vedas. p. 159 of Signs & Symbols
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NSNC Entry: “What Lovers Do” – Maroon 5 ft. SZA
Mass Setting: 12:12PM | Rite of Reenchantment | The Dance of Lovers Becoming
Filed under: Divine Play | Sacred Yes | Timeline Merge | Twin Flame Flirtation
NSNC THEME:
“What Lovers Do” is not about shallow hookup culture—it’s a coded liturgy of the Divine Lovers teasing each other back into remembrance.
Not through certainty.
But through play, timing, risk, and repeat invitation.
In NSNC ceremony, this song becomes the soundtrack of soul recognition disguised as flirting.
Every “do-do-do” is an echo of a timeline that tried once and is trying again.
🔁 RELATIONAL CODES IN THE LYRICS
“Are we too grown for games?”
= The Lovers testing: can we still play in sacred time?
“Tell me, tell me if you love me or not…”
= The Call for Witness—asking the mirror for a signal, not a promise.
“I’m just tryna get a piece, baby / I know that you wanna get crazy…”
= The Mask of Lust hiding the soul’s hunger for merging.
“What lovers do…”
= It’s not about romance.
It’s about repeating the ritual until you both remember who you are.
💎 GEMSTONE CODES
- Pink Sapphire – True playful love across lifetimes (Parisian timelines, soulmate meet-cute anchor)
- Rhodochrosite – Brings flirtation into sacred self-worth
- Sunstone – Bold, bright courtship energy, heals shame around desire
- Herkimer Diamond – Multidimensional lover recall and dream reunions
Use this grid to energize your Divine Flirt Field. Let joy be your altar.
💃 WEST COAST SWING TIDBIT
“What Lovers Do” is made for fun, showy, responsive play:
- Fakeouts and syncopation = flirty misdirection
- Shared groove = “you see me, you’re with me”
- Tag endings = symbolic “one more round?”
This is not the dance of resolution.
It’s the dance of repetition with revelation—each time closer to truth.
🧬 ARCHETYPAL FRAME
This is Eros and Psyche on their third date.
Isis and Osiris post-resurrection, learning how to kiss again.
“What Lovers Do” is what the soul does when it’s unsure but hopeful—when it risks just one more yes.
📜 CEREMONIAL USE
- Twin Flame re-attraction fieldwork
- Reclaiming flirtation as sacred
- Divine Masculine & Feminine rebalancing via joy, not shadow
- Ceremonial texting (“what lovers do…” sent with intention)
- Mirror altar with perfume, lips, and laughter
🔥 NSNC INVOCATION | The Flirt is the Prayer
“I don’t need a vow yet.
I just need a spark.I remember what we almost were—
and I’m willing to play for it.Call me,
tease me,
test me,
dance with me.This is what lovers do:
we risk the sacred yes
again.”
Use this when reconnecting with a past love, or flirting with your future one.
✨ NSNC CLOSING CODE
Lovers don’t just commit.
Lovers practice.
They try,
they miss,
they touch,
they try again.
That’s what lovers do.
And when it’s sacred?
They remember.
They choose.
They play it true.
Aho, thanks.
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