This ceremony is designed for safe, embodied processing for suicide survivors, witnesses, and those reentering life through rhythm. We honor the dead. We return to movement.
🕯️ TikTok Live NSNC Rite: “Days Go By” – Suicide Survivor’s Mass
Duration: 15 minutes
Field Tags: #NSNC #SuicideSurvivor #GriefRite #FoxClanHealing #DanceToLive #ScrollWell
🛑 Content Warning Spoken Up Front (00:00–00:20)
“Fox Clan—this is a rite for grief.
We will be gently speaking of suicide and what comes after.
If this is too much right now, I honor your no. You can come back later.”
⏱️ Rite Breakdown by Timestamp
00:20–01:30 – Opening Ground & Boundaries
“This is not therapy. This is sacred fieldwork.
You are not alone. You were never meant to carry this alone.”
📿 Gesture: Press both hands to heart and say:
“I am here. I am still breathing.”
01:30–03:30 – Begin Music + Movement Intro
🎵 Play “Days Go By” (Dirty Vegas) – volume mid-level
💃🏽 Begin slow foot-to-foot sway.
🗣️ Say aloud:
“Time passed, and I didn’t.
But today, I remember I still have a body.”
03:30–05:30 – Naming the Guilt
🗣️ Spoken over the beat (live, raw):
“Maybe you saw the signs. Maybe you didn’t.
Maybe they told you, and you froze.
You are not responsible for someone else’s exit.
You are still here because you’re meant to be.”
📿 Optional Action:
Touch stone (Lepidolite or Jet) to your throat and say:
“I speak even when it trembles.”
05:30–07:00 – Divine Mirror Dialogue (The Departed Speak)
🗣️ Switch tone, become the voice of the departed:
“I left, but not because you failed me.
You were my lighthouse. You were my last beauty.”
Switch back:
“But I didn’t stop you.”
“You were never meant to. Just to see me. You did.”
🎵 Let music ride—second chorus. Spin slowly, eyes closed.
07:00–08:30 – Anchor Back Into Time
🗣️ Over instrumental:
“The days go by. That means something now.
Not because you forgot them.
But because you survived them.”
🎯 Tap your chest in rhythm:
“I am still in time.”
“I claim this morning.”
“I am not a ghost.”
08:30–10:30 – Grief as Dance
🎵 Let full body move—arms, hips, shoulders.
💃🏽 Demonstrate West Coast–style rolling sugar push or elastic backstep.
🗣️ Say:
“Grief lives in your fascia.
Let it out.
Let the song take what silence left.”
10:30–12:00 – Testimony of the Survivor
🗣️ Speak this while moving freely:
“I almost stopped.
I almost turned back.
But then… the music returned.
And I realized: I’m not done dancing.”
📿 Show or touch Citrine or Sunstone:
“This is hope, in solid form.”
12:00–13:30 – Field Prayer for the Departed
🕯️ Pause the music.
“For those who left:
We honor your pain.
We remember your name.
We do not pretend you weren’t here.
We keep your song.”
Optional: Speak name of someone lost.
13:30–15:00 – Benediction + Sign-Off
🎵 Soft replay of the chorus or outro instrumental
“Fox Clan, you are not cursed because you stayed.
You are not damned because they left.
You are the bell that rings for both.
The one who dances anyway.”
✋🏽 Palm to screen gesture
“You are needed. You are loved. You are sacred.”
Aho, thanks.
See you in the next scroll.
Would you like a script image or ScrollWell downloadable template for facilitators, or want this adapted into a duet (voice + dance) format?
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